Modern Day Chivalric Code

Man’s guide to life aka the CHIVALRIC CODE

1) Don’t lie! (Most of you are horrible at it anyway). Equivocating and omitting is accepted. Telling your spouse everything can be quite selfish because you are alleviating yourself of the pain brought on by guilt & thrusting that pain onto the shoulders of someone else.

2) Be considerate. Work on being honest but also taking one’s feelings into consideration as well.

3) Get in touch with your feelings. REAL MEN CRY! It is OKAY to cry, just let it out. It will bring you much closer to the person you care about.

4) Get a job. Nobody wants to be with a man who cannot provide for them, let alone take care of themselves. A sense of motivation, independence, and confidence is a turn on.

5) Have a purpose – set a goal. Couch potatoes are the worst! Believe in something and take action.

6) Take pride in family. It is one of the most important aspects of one’s life and is a great indicator as to how a man values the meaning of unconditional love.

7) Don’t say it unless you mean it. Ensure that you can actually carry out all your promises and simply stand by your word.

8) Eliminate sex. Not to say practice abstinence but If you can until marriage, that’s great. However, next time you enter a relationship, try to think with your head and not with your…

9) Be Strong. Not just physically, but mentally as well.

10) Be yourself. Don’t try to be someone you’re not to please someone else. Never forget who you are! LOVE yourself.